Premature ejaculation may be diagnosed wrongly when the problem is delayed orgasm in female or anorgasmia (failure to get orgasm) in woman.

About 15% of women report difficulties with orgasm, and as many as 10% of women in the United States have never climaxed. Many women who orgasm regularly only climax about 50-70% of the time.[citation needed]***

Because many females are unable to reach climax at all with vaginal intercourse (no matter how prolonged), this situation may actually represent delayed orgasm in the female partner rather than premature ejaculation in the male; the problem can be either or both, depending on the point of view. This highlights the importance of obtaining a thorough sexual history from the patient (and preferably from the couple).**

The criteria for premature ejaculation stated in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition, text revision (DSM-IV-TR) is as follows: (1) persistent and recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, on, or shortly after penetration before the person wishes it; (2) marked distress or interpersonal difficulty; and (3) not exclusively due to direct effects.**

You can see the definition above fails to mention time (__number of minutes).
Note also that the duration of intra vaginal insertion varies in the same individual from time to time.

Pharmaceutical companies and doctors hugely benefit as the greed to last very long continues to be cherished by men all over the world at all times and the myth of prolonged duration of sex lasting long before first ejaculation is relentlessly propagated by pornography videos.

Seven out of ten men in United States suffer from PE (Premature Ejaculation)

An estimated 30%-70% of American males experience premature ejaculation. According to the National Health and Social Life Survey (NHSLS) it is 30% in US men. **2

SOBER REMINDER OF
MEDICAL FACT
DURATION OF SEXUAL INTERCOURSE FROM INSERTION TO EJACULATION IN MEN IS 60 SECONDS TO 180 SECONDS (1 MINUTE TO 3 MINUTES) ONLY. IN NORMAL MEN AT TIMES IT CAN BE LESSER THAN ONE MINUTE AND LONGER THAN 3 MINUTES

Dr. Ashok Koparday

RESOURCES
1

Classification and resources for ANORGASMIA are given below
ICD-10 F52.3
ICD-9 302.73, 302.74
DiseasesDB 23879
eMedicine article/295379d

2**

http://emedicine.medscape.com/article/435884-overview

Premature Ejaculation
Author: Aaron Benson, MD, Staff Physician, Department of Surgery, Division of Urology, Southern Illinois University School of Medicine
Coauthor(s): Loren B Ost, MD, Associate Professor, Department of Surgery, Southern Illinois University School of Medicine; Urologist, SIU Physicians and Surgeons; Mark Jeffrey Noble, MD, Consulting Staff, Urologic Institute, Cleveland Clinic Foundation; Milton Lakin, MD, Head, Section of Medical Urology, Urological Institute, Cleveland Clinic

3***
Wikipedia/Anorgasmia

DOCTOR’S REPLY
Kindly visit the site http://mydoctortells.com and http://doctortells.blogspot.com
This site is ALL ABOUT PREMATURE EJACULATION -http://asksexdoctor.blogspot.com/

Regards,
Dr. Ashok Koparday

I really felt proud inside, Mom,
The way you said I would.
I didn’t drink and drive, Mom,
Even though the others said I should.

I know I did the right thing, Mom,
I know you are always right.
Now the party is finally ending, Mom,
As everyone is driving out of sight.

As I got into my car, Mom,
I knew I’d get home in one piece.
Because of the way you raised me,
So responsible and sweet.

I started to drive away, Mom,
But as I pulled out into the road,
The other car didn’t see me, Mom,
And hit me like a load.

As I lay there on the pavement, Mom,
I hear the policeman say,
“The other guy is drunk,” Mom,
And now I’m the one who will pay.

I’m lying here dying, Mom….
I wish you’d get here soon.
How could this happen to me, Mom?
My life just burst like a balloon.

There is blood all around me, Mom,
And most of it is mine.
I hear the medic say, Mom,
I’ll die in a short time.

I just wanted to tell you, Mom,
I swear I didn’t drink.
It was the others, Mom.
The others didn’t think.

He was probably at the same party as I.
The only difference is, he drank
And I will die.

Why do people drink, Mom?
It can ruin your whole life.
I’m feeling sharp pains now.
Pains just like a knife.

The guy who hit me is walking, Mom,
And I don’t think it’s fair.
I’m lying here dying
And all he can do is stare.

Tell my brother not to cry, Mom.
Tell Daddy to be brave.
And when I go to heaven, Mom,
Put “Daddy’s Girl” on my grave.

Someone should have told him, Mom,
Not to drink and drive.
If only they had told him, Mom,
I would still be alive.

My breath is getting shorter, Mom.
I’m becoming very scared.
Please don’t cry for me, Mom.
When I needed you, you were always there.

I have one last question, Mom.
Before I say good bye.
I didn’t drink and drive,
So why am I the one to die?

When I born, I black
When I grow up, I black
When I go in Sun, I black
When I scared, I black
When I sick, I black
And when I die, I still black

poem by african kid

And you white fellow
When you born, you pink
When you grow up, you white
When you go in sun, you red
When you cold, you blue
When you scared, you yellow
When you sick, you green
And when you die, you gray

And you calling me colored?

TIME

TEN QUESTIONS FOR PLAY BOY FOUNDER HUGH HEFNER

Question submitted by
Ceara Jolliff, Collinsville, IL
Do you ever grow tired of the playboy life style and regret not settling down.
HUGH HEFNER REPLIES

I have tried it both ways.
I have been married twice, and the only time I wasn’t having a lot of sex was when I was married.
I have also expressed on more than one occasion that it is easier to deal with several girl friends than one wife. I think there is no single answer to happiness.

———-000———-
Lisa Pearl, Toronto, Canada
Do you ever feel like a dirty old man?
HUGH HEFNER REPLIES

Not for a moment. I am on the side of the angels and always have been. I consider myself, on a serious note, a very moral man and always have, and morality always has been very very important for me.

———000——
Asking the dirty question:
WHICH IS THE BEST SEX?
HUGH HEFNER REPLIES

If I look back over the years, the happiest times for me were the times in the early stages of romantic love. It keeps you young. Young love Blue love keeps you young.

———-000————-
HUGH HEFNER PLAYBOY’S CHILDHOOD

I was raised in a puritan home, a prohibitionist home, a very repressive home.
Life as a celebration. Life should be lived in style, attitude of life.

—-000———

IS HUGH HEFNER FEMINIST OR HUMANIST?
HUGH HEFNER REPLIES

I am an active humanist.
———000————-
IS IT NOT TRUE THAT PLAYBOY IS PORNOGRAPY?
HUGH HEFNER REPLIES

The magazine never ever has been anything even remotely related to pornography. If you think that and if you label pin up pictures, pictures of nude ladies or semi nude as pornography, then there is nothing that is erotic and that is just a matter of labeling.

—-000—
ARE WOMEN SEX ITEMS?
HUGH HEFNER REPLIES

What is wrong with celebrating women as sex objects?
Is it not a part of what life is all about? If women were not sex objects there would be no second generation. Women are sex objects; that doesn’t mean they are not human beings.
To be a sex object and to be desired gives woman tremendous amount of power. It makes the world go around. Sex and the attraction between the sexes does make the world go around.

See Playboy Founder’s Video

Acknowledgement

Producer Vanessa Crudossero www.time.com

Well, you paint quite a picture, redshark66, but I realize it’s no
laughing matter for either you or your wife. Maintaining an erection
for an excessive length of time is troubling, and although the
satisfaction of ejaculation is eventually achieved, the timing is
perceived as unsatisfactory for both partners. An inability to time
ejaculation, and a wife’s feeling that she is unable to help, can put
a strain on any relationship. Treatment involves reducing anziety,
goal orientation, and learning techniques, not only on how to control
the timing of ejaculation, but also exercises to practice together as
a couple. I’ve copied and pasted relevant sections below but please
click on the links for full details.

You’ll find the following terms useful for searching on line.

Delayed ejaculation (DE)
Retarded ejaculation (RE)
Inhibited orgasm
Male orgasmic disorder

What is Male Orgasmic Disorder?
“Male orgasmic disorder occurs when a man is unable to ejaculate into
his partner?s vagina. Like the other sexual dysfunctions, it can be
either lifelong or acquired and is either generalized or situational.
The lifelong form of this disorder is very rare; the acquired form is
more common and is usually the result of psychological factors-for
example, a very strict, religious background, a lack of trust, or a
high need to be in control. The treatment is to gradually desensitize
the man to the factors that keep him from experiencing ejaculation.”
http://www.nku.edu/~hcp/MALE%20SEXUAL%20DYSFUNCTION.htm

What is retarded ejaculation (ejaculatory incompetence)?
The terms ‘delayed ejaculation? (DE) and ‘retarded ejaculation’ (RE)
mean inability of the man to reach a climax. However, in most of the
cases which I have treated, the sufferer can actually achieve orgasm
during masturbation – but not during sexual intercourse.”
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/ejaculatoryincompetence.htm

First and foremost, you need to have a complete psychological and
physical evaluation. Most communities have specialist in the field and
if you don’t know who to contact, a good place to start would be to
phone the nearest university teaching hospital.

Definition
Ejaculatory incompetence; Sex – delayed ejaculation; Retarded ejaculation
“Most men ejaculate within 2 to 4 minutes after onset of active
thrusting in intercourse. Men with retarded ejaculation may be
entirely unable to ejaculate in some circumstances (for example,
during intercourse), or may only be able to ejaculate with great
effort and after prolonged intercourse (for example 30 to 45
minutes).”
“If, however, he is able to ejaculate in a reasonable period of time
by some form of stimulation, he should seek sex therapy from a
therapist specializing in this area. Treatment usually includes both
partners.
The therapist will usually educate the couple about the fundamentals
of sexual response and how to communicate and guide the partner to
provide ideal stimulation, rather than trying to will a sexual
response to occur.
Therapy then commonly involves a series of homework assignments
wherein the couple, in the privacy of their home, engage in sexual
activities that minimize performance pressure and maximize focusing on
pleasure.
Typically, sexual intercourse will be prohibited for a limited period
of time, while the couple gradually enhances their ability to enjoy
ejaculation through other types of stimulation. “

Expectations (prognosis)
“Outpatient treatment commonly requires about 12 to 18 sessions with
an average success rate in the range of 70 to 80%.”
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001954.htm

What is retarded ejaculation?
“Difficulty in ejaculating is known by doctors as retarded
ejaculation. Although men who suffer from this problem may be fully
sexually aroused during sex and enjoying the stimulation, orgasm seems
to take for ever and may not happen at all.
Retarded ejaculation (RE) can be a very distressing condition.
Sufferers can feel embarrassed, isolated, confused and very
frustrated.
Partners often blame themselves and feel inadequate, which puts even
more pressure on the sufferer to perform and compounds the problem
further.”
Possible psychological reasons include:
“You’re a perfectionist…”
“You’re scared to lose control…”
“You’re worried that you’re not a good lover…”
“Deep down, you believe sex is wrong…”
“You’re distracted…”
“You’re spectating…”
“You’re unhappy…”
http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/sex_and_sexual_health/probs_difficultyejaculating.shtml

Sexual Disorders
Classification / Treatment Self assessment / References / Swaab references
http://www.priory.com/sex.htm

“Retarded ejaculation is often treated by reducing anxiety and
learning to control the timing of ejaculation. Sensate focus exercises
may help; you should withhold penetration until you sense that
ejaculation is inevitable. A common cause of retarded or delayed
ejaculation is side effects from medication. The most common drugs
that cause this are antidepressant medications such as the SSRIs.”
http://www.hipusa.com/eTools/webmd/A-Z_Encyclopedia/malesexualproblemstreatment.htm

THINGS TO TRY

Briefly, stop having sex so often! Here’s hummer’s official tip: do
not make love with your wife for one week (cuddling is ok and
encouraged – see Sensate-Focus Exercises). If a week sounds like an
eternity, try 3, 4, or 5 days of abstinence. After a “successful”
night, don’t return to your present schedule right away but wait
another interval, gradually reducing the times. When you notice it is
taking more than 45 minutes again, lengthen the time intervals again.
You should also withhold penetration until you sense that ejaculation
is inevitable by asking your wife to position herself astride you (on
top). When you are nearly ready, switch positions.

Sure as shootin’, if you sign up with a sex therapist, you will come
home with homework assignments in the form of “Sensate-Focus
Exercises”. These traditional exercises, developed by Masters and
Johnson decades ago, still work and may be all that is needed. At the
very least, they won’t hurt. They take you through a series of levels
by first learning to stop focusing on orgasm and learning to focus
more on the sensory pleasures of the moment (that’s why they are
called “Sensate Focus”). Level one usually begins with your clothes on
and you’ll gradually advance to touching and communication, to
enjoying being inside your wife without moving and finally to
thrusting. But each step must be taken one at a time.

Sensate Focus
“Sensate focus is a therapy that is commonly used as one technique
among several for to treating sexual problems such as anorgasmia,
erectile difficulty, and hypoactive sexual desire disorder. Namely, it
can help both females and males who have a hard time becoming sexually
excited and reaching orgasm. This technique is designed to reduce
anxieties about reaching orgasm by focusing more on what feels good to
you and your partner. People often mistakenly believe that the “goal”
of sex is to reach orgasm. When individuals get anxious about reaching
that goal, they often miss out on the joys of simply being with their
partner and taking their time to experiment with touching and feeling
many parts of their partner?s body.”
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/?article=difficulty&refid=016

Sensate Focus
“Touching is an important part of any sensual relationship, but is all
too often forgotten. Psychosexual therapist Paula Hall decribes
sensate focus, a series of exercises designed to help couples become
more comfortable with touch and build trust and intimacy.”
http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/sex_and_sexual_health/exercise_sensate.shtml

Sensate-Focus Exercises
Most sex therapists assign sensate-focus exercises in their treatment
of patients with sexual dysfunction. During these exercises, the
patient couple is instructed to refrain from intercourse and orgasm.
There are four levels of exercises, described as follows:
Level I.
Each partner touches his or her partner?s body but avoids the
genitals and breasts. The purpose of this exercise is for each partner
to learn about the other person?s body. The person being touched is
silent except when feeling uncomfortable.
Level II.
The purpose of the touching is to bring pleasure to one?s
partner but still avoids the genitals and breasts. The one being
touched tells the partner what feels good and at what pressure.
Level III.
This exercise is similar to Level II but includes the
genitals and breasts, along with the rest of the body. The couple
still must avoid intercourse and orgasm.
Level IV
This exercise involves mutual touching but avoids intercourse and orgasm.
The sex therapist will assign subsequent exercises that depend on the
needs of the couple.
http://www.nku.edu/~hcp/MALE%20SEXUAL%20DYSFUNCTION.htm

“Some men get into the habit of thinking about how difficult it’s been
in the past to reach orgasm when they’re having sex with a partner.
This slows down arousal and makes orgasm more elusive. How can you
avoid this? Focus on things that are sexy to you. It can be some
aspect of your partner’s personality or body, a hoped-for experience
or an embellishment of the situation you’re currently in. The brain
has an amazing way of propelling sexual arousal forward even when the
physical stimulation is different or less intense than usual.”

“Teach your partner how to stimulate you by hand in the way you like best…”

“Check whether you are focusing excessively on giving your partner pleasure…”

“There’s another common approach to sex that slows things down. Often
intercourse is begun too soon in the sexual encounter…”

“Give up watching the clock with an arbitrary time limit in mind…”

“Take a look at how you feel emotionally during sex. Are you angry?
Anxious? Afraid? Depressed?…”

“Some men are so anxious during the closeness of sex that they protect
themselves from the overwhelming feelings by not permitting orgasm…”
http://boards.webmd.com/webx?THD@281.5GRNaaNwddv.0@.59aefddd/2!thdchild=.59aefddd/2

Try these at home!
“These exercises use techniques employed by psychosexual therapists to
help people get the most from their sex life. Some are to be done on
your own and some with a partner – and the idea is to have fun!”
http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/sex_and_sexual_health/exercise_index.shtml

Self-help tips and exercises
For ways to put these tips into action, see the section on practical exercises.
* Make sure you’re feeling relaxed. Try breathing exercises or buy
a relaxation tape.
* Enjoy being sensual first, taking time to focus on pleasurable sensations.
* Escape into your favourite fantasy to block out any negative
thoughts or distractions.
* Try different positions to maximise stimulation.
* Strengthen your pelvic floor muscles.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/sex_and_sexual_health/probs_difficultyejaculating.shtml

Sexual Dysfunctions, Counseling, and Therapies
Brief History of American Sexual Therapy
http://www2.rz.hu-berlin.de/sexology/GESUND/ARCHIV/IES/USA15.HTM

Following is a good overview on what to expect when you visit a sex therapist.

Principles of Sex Therapy
http://www.hsph.harvard.edu/Organizations/healthnet/SAsia/suchana/0719/rh256.html

For Your Wife

Ejaculation – delayed
“Delayed ejaculation means that even though your sexual desire
(libido) and erections are normal, you have difficulty reaching a
climax (i.e. the point at which semen spurts out) when you are inside
your partner.”

How to help a partner with delayed ejaculation
* There?s nothing biologically wrong with most men experiencing
ejaculation difficulties. However, men who cannot come inside a woman
may have a combination of technique and attitude problems. For
instance, many men learn how to do sex by masturbating. When they
bring themselves to orgasm, they may agitate with their hands far more
quickly than two people can ever have sex. Hence when they start
making love, the sensations seem under-stimulating. The answer to this
part of the problem is to increase the eroticism of foreplay, make
your partner wait until he?s practically on the edge of climax before
allowing him to insert his penis.
* If it doesn?t help, anxiety is probably preventing him from
triggering his ejasculatory reflex. Tell him there is a remedy, which
you can jointly try over a period of weeks.
* When the time is right, and you are feeling intimate and
relaxed, ask him to show you how he masturbates all the way to orgasm.
Be light-hearted and make it fun. Next time, ask him to masturbate
with a little assistance from you. Next time, see if he can do it just
inside your vulva again with assistance from your hand if he enjoys
it. At this point, if the process has proved successful, draw his
attention to the fact that you are virtually having normal sexual
intercourse and that he HAS managed to ejaculate where you both want
him to.
* On the next occasion, he could insert himself fully and try
coming deep inside you – and so on. The important point to remember is
that if at any stage he meets with a reverse, you don?t fret but
simply return to the previous stage and get comfortable with that
again.
http://www.embarrassingproblems.co.uk/ejacdelayed.htm

I’m sorry there isn’t a magic pill to take or cream to use, but the
exercises are much more fun, anyway! It’s important to me that you
are very happy with my answer, so if not, or if you have any
questions, please post a clarification request and wait for me to
respond before closing/rating my answer. And if you think of it,
please send an update later on and let me know how you are making out!

Thank you and good luck,
hummer
Subject: Re: Delayed Ejaculation Problems
Answered By: hummer-ga on 17 Sep 2005 10:54 PDT
Source:

http://answers.google.com/answers/threadview/id/568819.html

Another view
Swallowing semen (fluid that contains sperms) is not harmful to body.
As a matter of taste, if someone abhors it, that person may feel nauseated.

Delayed ejaculation, also called as retarded ejaculation, ejaculatory incompetence, inhibited orgasm, and male orgasmic disorder is uncommon condition.

Health care professionals say delayed ejaculation could be because of any of the following causes, or all of them together or none of them.


A
CAUSES where ejaculation is delayed while doing sexual intercourse.
1) Rigid, orthodox upbringing,
2) Performance anxiety in newly wed. “What will she say if I do not _ _? “It is like appearing for exams.
3) Lack of confidence.
4) New partner, who could be perceived as intimidating. “I got to prove it.”
5) Unrealistic Expectations from oneself.
6) Past experience with someone else.
7) Childhood is dominated by ‘mother’.

These are healthy men who ejaculate normally when they masturbate.

B
CAUSES of delayed ejaculation ONLY during Sexual Intercourse and not during Masturbation.
1
Masturbation is done ‘alone’ in privacy. Sexual intercourse is in the presence of ‘someone else’. There is performance stress

2
Masturbation allows for fantasy that is most vulgar. The guy may avoid this ‘fantasy’, which he is used to for years. He may think, “How can I betray my partner by entertaining those (fantasy) thoughts?”

3
Habit of masturbatory has conditioned the guy for a particular form of physical friction that may be intense. Same does not happen during sexual intercourse. This is another cause why intense stimulation is required for orgasm. Often this too does not work.

C
CAUSES
Though the person appears normal Sex Therapist will check for the following causes.

1) Medications, such as Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors, that is SSRI. Prozac(TM) (Fluoxetine) is one example of SSRI. It is very popular and on any one day several million people consume Prozac (TM).
2) Excessive use of Alcohol and use of illicit drugs.
3) Trauma to the pelvic nerve
4) Diseases that affect spinal cord.
5) Major Clinical Depression with or without Anxiety

D
CAUSES where ejaculation is delayed even during masturbation

In an otherwise healthy male besides any one of the above or all of them there is one more cause that requires intense stimulation to reach orgasm.
If the person has been masturbating successively one after the other in a day and too frequently in a week for a long time and has seen almost all pornography materials, then his excitement threshold is high.

E
CAUSES that are not to be overlooked.
1) Aging
2) Bereavement due to loss of dear partner can delay ejaculation.
3) Atherosclerosis affects the blood vessels of penis.
4) Microangiopathy. Damage to small microscopic blood vessels.
5) Neuropathy. Nerve damage. Beginning of autonomic nerve damage due to onset of underlying disease process such as hypertension, Diabetes Mellitus Type II.

These are the causes of delayed ejaculation requiring intense stimulation to orgasm in male who appears healthy.

About Scot Fitzgerald and Karen Moldovan

6.    Do you feel you are a failure?
7.    Do you feel fresh on getting up in the morning?
8.    Do you feel like you have not had enough rest and need to sleep more, but because it is compulsory you force yourself to get up for work?
9.    Comparatively, do you feel fresh in morning or evening?
10.    Do you feel afraid?
11.    Do you sense heart beat increasing?
12.    How many times in a day or week you feel fear like feeling?
13.    Do you feel sad?
14.    Do you feel it is better to die?
15.    Do you feel like crying?
16.    Do you feel like being alone and not mixing with people?
17.    Do you tend to avoid social meeting and much talking?
18.    Do you feel more irritated?
19.    Do you tend to forget small things?
20.    Does it appear difficult to take decisions?
21.    Do you feel hopeless?
22.    Do you feel helpless?
23.    Do you have body pains and aches in different parts of body?
24.    Have you done any blood or other investigations and if so are all of them normal?
25.    Do you get only temporary relief when you take treatment for body health troubles?
Dr. Ashok Koparday
MBBS, FC SEPI
Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

Ex. Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
University of Mumbai, India

Five roads to hell

1. You ask for a sex medicine to a chemist. You trust him and slyly buy telling yourself that you will just try and see.

2. Your friend tells you he has benefited by a sex medicine. “Its really good”, he says and you can’t resist the temptation to try it out.

3. You daily see big, prominent, advertisement hoardings of Sexologist’s displayed prominently on every railway stations, (actually even on small stations where only the passenger train halts) as well as sexologist’s posters inside railway compartments. You also see advertisements of sex doctors pasted on the public lavatory.

4. You get emails, which tell about sex medicines.

5. Television promotional advertisements

1.CHEMIST

A] If the chemist surreptitiously gives medicines like Viagra ? without a doctor’s prescription, remember the risk is to your life not to his. Sildenafil = Viagra ? was introduced initially for heart ailment. When taken with nitrates it causes lethal fall in blood pressure. You are no more alive to do sex.

SOLUTION: Your doctor, family doctor or cardiologist or endocrinologist from whom you are taking treatment will be able to tell the right medicine for you. You have every right to talk to your doctor. The professional doctor doesn’t and is not supposed to divulge any secret.

B] Don’t be fooled by the label “Ayurvedic medicine”

Medicines given under the garb of ‘Ayurvedic’ often contain the same allopathic medicine though packed and advertised as ayurvedic medicine. It is easy to market a medicine as ‘Ayurvedic’ since F & D laws are less stringent compared to allopathic medicines. Also, there is a Widely Prevalent Myth that ‘Ayurvedic’ medicines are always safe and have no side effects. If Ayurvedic Medicines were safe, with no side effects, why would we require a medical degree in Ayurveda. Just walk to a chemist and buy some thing yourself. Doesn’t work! Go buy some thing else. Why would you require medical schools teaching ayurveda or homeopathy?

Ayurvedacharyas that is Vaidyas or doctors qualified in the Ayurveda system of diagnosis and treatment know that wrongly chosen medicine could be truly harmful. Medicines, be it ayurvedic or homeopathic or allopathic, can be hazardous when taken without consulting the doctor who spends nearly 5 years studying the system and has several years of experience. Every individual needs to be examined for his constitution: vat, pitta, cough and cleansing ‘pancha karma’ may have to be done before instituting any treatment. The science of Ayurveda prescribes definite methods of preparation (example: bhasma), strength of the product (matra) and methods of storage and consumption by the sick, which are, overlooked in proprietary, on the counter, Ayurveda medicines. Medicines, which contain for example, shilajeet when consumed for sufficient duration, unsupervised by a Vaidya can damage kidneys. Ayurveda is an ancient systematic science of medicine and if one chooses to take Ayurveda medicine:

SOLUTION: Visit a qualified practitioner of Ayurveda.

Mumbai has two reputed Ayurvedic medical colleges with hospitals. Treatment can be sought from these hospitals where Ayurveda is taught.

2.FRIEND.

Be wary. In sexual matters friends can be braggarts. What is medicine for one can be poison for other. Medicines like Viagra ? are not recreational medicines.
3. ADVERTISEMENT.

AVOID going to any doctor whose advertisement you see whether on railway stations or in newspapers.
Why AVOID doctor’s who advertise?

Qualified doctors never advertise, be it railway stations or newspapers. Have you ever seen advertisement on any railway station of a qualified heart specialist whose hospital is in your neighborhood?
Those who advertise on railway stations spend lakhs of rupees per day over advertisements. Unfortunately, no body files complaints against them. Even if a complaint is filed they don’t fear loosing their degree because they don’t have one. These people who rob in broad daylight under the guise of a doctor are called as quacks.
Remember: Nowhere! Nowhere will you see boards or hoardings advertised by qualified doctor. The qualified doctor has just a board outside the clinic, which tells about the doctor, his qualifications, his specialty and the facilities provided. Exception: Recently Yellow Pages print information of qualified doctors.
What would happen if you go to a doctor by seeing their advertisements?
You loose not only your money, but also your health and most important you loose trust. You are shattered. You think your case is hopeless. You feel doomed.
SOLUTION: Visit your family doctor. Don’t be ashamed. It is not a sin to have sexual problem. If you haven’t come across a sexual health expert who specializes and practices exclusively in this field of medicine, you may visit any qualified doctor who will be able to guide you to a doctor who specializes in the field of sexual medicine. Family Planning Association of India having branches all over India usually has a sexual health expert on the panel.

4.EMAIL

Emails telling you about sex medicines are to be deleted.
How will you know they are a cheat?
The ad usually has the following language.
“Amazing Results” – The only results that are amazing are the profits the seller makes by deception.
“Clinically proven” - If it were truly clinically proven, you would be able to get a prescription for it from your family doctor or buy it at your drug store.
“Money Back Guarantee” – Yes, they might refund your money, but you still have to pay shipping and handling charges. They make profit on the “handling charges”. Even if every single item gets returned, the seller still comes out on top.
“Guaranteed to Work” – And if it doesn’t work, are you going to take them to court and prove to a jury that your penis is the same size as before?
“Add Inches Now” – Even if it did work (which it doesn’t), you can’t get magic results right “now”.
“Safe and Effective” – It may be safe or it may actually not be safe. Any government or independent agency does not regulate penis enlargement techniques.
“Results May vary” – OK, give them some credit for being ? honest. But this line should read “Results May Not Occur”.
“All Natural or Herbal” – That’s real nice — a nice way of saying: “This really won’t work”.
“100%… – Nothing is ever one hundred percent. Any legitimate advertiser would not open them up to liability like this.
“Other Products are Scams!” – Yes, they are, and so is this one, that one, and the next one.
“Fast / Quick Results” - You can’t make any part of your body grow fast. The penis is no exception.

“Read these Testimonials” - Actually, freelance writers sometimes work for pennies per word. It doesn’t cost much to hire a writer. It’s even cheaper for the seller to sit down and write a few fake testimonials himself.

“Before and After” – Computers can make any picture look bigger, longer, or thicker.
Here is a sample email that landed in my inbox.

5.TELEADS

Medicines or treatments cannot legally be advertised on Television. An ad showing ‘before and after’ and narrating stories of satisfied customers is beneficial for those doing this business not for patients or their customers.
Solution: Don’t hesitate to go to your nearby qualified medical doctor. Health, even if it is Sexual Health is not to be risked in the hands of a quack. Such medicines may harm you so that you may be worse than what you were before taking it.
YOUR HEALTH IS PRECIOUS, PRICELESS, PRESERVE IT.
Dr. Ashok Koparday

Medical Director

Center for Therapy, Education and Research in Sex, Marriage, Relationships.

http://www.mydoctortells.com

P-Cock-syndrome

Male homosapien all over the planet are obsessed by the size of their penis.

Among all the sense organs, that is, the five organs of action and the five sense organs penis is the only organ that increases and decreases in size and stiffness. A person’s nose or ear do not increase or decrease in size daily. Even when the penis is not tumescent, that is in a normal state when the penis is not erect, the male compare and often end up dejected that their penis does not measure up to the size.

Dr. Ashok Koparday, a practicing Consultant in Sexual Medicine, calls it the ‘P-cock’ syndrome.

The male almost struts with pride assuming that the size of penis is of paramount importance to attract and satisfy the female of the species, not knowing that women do not love a man or measure a man depending on the size of his penis.

One of the most common complaints the male of the species have is that the size of their penis is small. Hence all sorts of herbal, non herbal, creams, sprays, capsules, tablets, medicines and other sins sell in the market all the time, throughout history, all over the world because the ‘P-cock’ syndrome is a global phenomena. There is not a single internet user who has not come across an email in the inbox touting medicines that are sold for sexual zest.

Who says sex does not sell?

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It could be any of these things or something else. What I do is type the word, ‘jokes’ or ‘one liner’ in Google and savor the humor to get a refreshing feeling even before my web page opens for due attention. The web page of jokes are just beside my working page and I feel better, almost reassured. If I ask myself, ” How does it refresh you, or stir a cheer in you?” I think it is because the joke makes you see a dire situation in a totally different way and leaves a feeling of joy trailing behind you. Let the scientists debate whether animals have or do not have sense of humor, which is a unique and desirable characteristic of the homo sapien, I abandon myself to relish the ‘ha, ha’ or the ‘mute smile, that emanates as I read the jokes.

I am amused that the one liner I find at

http://www.oneliners-and-proverbs.com/W2_whe-whi.html

is as big as this one.

When things go wrong as they sometimes will,
When the road your trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit
Rest if you must, but don’t you quit.
Success is failure turned inside out,
The silver tint on the clouds of doubt,
And you can never tell hoe close you are,
It may be near when it seems afar.
So, stick to the fight when your hardest hit
It’s when things go wrong that you mustn’t quit.

This one related to my profession did turn up a smile on my face though I was not reading it for the first time:

When they say Doctors are practicing, they aren’t kidding.

I meet Erma Bombeck as I read this:
When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, “I used everything You gave me.” (Erma Bombeck)
and
I meet William Temple when I read this quote
When I pray, coincidences happen, and when I don’t pray, they don’t. (William Temple)

Who can speak so powerfully about handicaps than Helen Keller?
When one door of happiness closes, another opens: but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. (Helen Keller)

This one from Henry Ford has a powerful punch,
When everything seems to be going against you, remember the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it. (Henry Ford)

When alive, young and agile, talk of death is rot. Nonetheless, I persuaded myself to read along to find this:

When I die, I want to go peacefully like my grandfather did–in his sleep.
Not screaming like the passengers in his car.

Yes, and I wish Doug Belknap & Chad Goodwin, had whispered in my ear during my Obstetrics viva why new born are spanked. This is what they say:
When a friend asked his six-year-old brother why babies are spanked when they are born, the youngster replied, “To get them used to it. (Doug Belknap & Chad Goodwin)

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FACTS TO MAKE EVERY Indian PROUD

Q. Who is the GM of Hewlett Packard (hp) ?
A. Rajiv Gupta

Q. Who is the creator of Pentium chip (needs no introduction as 90% of the today’s computers run on it)?
A. Vinod Dahm

Q. Who is the third richest man on the world?
A. According to the latest report on Fortune Magazine, it is Azim Premji, who is the CEO of Wipro Industries. The Sultan of Brunei is at 6 th position now.

Q. Who is the founder and creator of Hotmail (Hotmail is world’s No.1 web based email program)?
A. Sabeer Bhatia

Q. Who is the president of AT & T-Bell Labs (AT & T-Bell Labs is the creator of program languages such as C, C++, Unix to name a few)?
A. Arun Netravalli

Q. Who is the new MTD (Microsoft Testing Director) of Windows 2000, responsible to iron out all initial problems?
A. Sanjay Tejwrika

Q. Who is the 1^st man who officially received license to practice Medicine for Naturopathy in Europe ?

A. Dr. Ravindran Suresh Kumar is licensed to practice “Paramedical Medicine Naturopathy” and also recognized as pioneer by the Dutch authorities.

Q. Who are the Chief Executives of CitiBank, Mckensey & Stanchart?
A. Victor Menezes, Rajat Gupta, and Rana Talwar.

Q. We Indians are the wealthiest among all ethnic groups in America, even faring better than the whites and the natives.
There are 3.22 millions of Indians in USA (1.5% of population). YET,
38% of doctors in USA are Indians.
12% scientists in USA are Indians.
36% of NASA scientists are Indians.
34% of Microsoft employees are Indians.
28% of IBM employees are Indians.
17% of INTEL scientists are Indians.
13% of XEROX employees are! Indians.

Some of the following facts may be known to you. These facts were recently published in a German magazine, which deals with WORLD HISTORY FACTS ABOUT INDIA.
1. India never invaded any country in her last 1000 years of history.
2. India invented the Number system. Zero was invented by Aryabhatta.
3. The world’s first University was established in Takshila in 700BC. More than 10,500 students from all over the world studied more than 60 subjects. The University of Nalanda built in the 4 th century BC was one of the greatest achievements of ancient India in the field of education.
4. According to the Forbes magazine, Sanskrit is the most suitable language for computer software.

5. Ayurveda is the earliest school of medicine known to humans.
6. Although western media portray modern images of India as poverty stricken and underdeveloped through political corruption, India was once the richest empire on earth.

7. The art of navigation was born in the river Sindh 5000 years ago. The very word “Navigation” is derived from the Sanskrit word NAVGATIH.
8. The value of pi was first calculated by Budhayana, and he explained the concept of what is now k! nown as the Pythagorean Theorem. British scholars have last year (1999) officially published that Budhayan’s works dates to the 6 th Century which is long before the European mathematicians.

9. Algebra, trigonometry and calculus came from India . Quadratic equations were by Sridharacharya in the 11 th Century; the largest numbers the Greeks and the Romans used were 106 whereas Indians used numbers as big as 10 53.
10. According to the Gemmological Institute of America, up until 1896, India was the only source of diamonds to the world.

11. USA based IEEE has proved what has been a century-old suspicion amongst academics that the pioneer of wireless communication was Professor Jagdeesh Bose and not Marconi.
12. The earliest reservoir and dam for irrigation was built in Saurashtra.

13. Chess was invented in India .
14. Sushruta is the father of surgery. 2600 years ago he and health scientists of his time conducted surgeries like cesareans, cataract, fractures and urinary stones. Usage of anaesthesia was well known in ancient India .
15. When many cultures in the world were only nomadic forest dwellers over 5000 years ago, Indians established Harappan culture in Sindhu Valley ( Indus Valley Civilisation).
16. The place value system, the decimal system was developed in India in 100 BC.

Quotes about India .
We owe a lot to the Indians, who taught us how to count, without which no worthwhile scientific discovery could have been made.
Albert Einstein.

India is the cradle of the human race, the birthplace of human speech, the mother of history, the grandmother of legend and the great grand mother of tradition.
Mark Twain.

If there is one place on the face of earth where all dreams of living men have found a home from the very earliest days when man began the dream of existence, it is India .
French scholar Romain Rolland.

India conquered and dominated China culturally for 20 centuries without ever having to send a single soldier across her border.
Hu Shih
(former Chinese ambassador to USA )

ALL OF THE ABOVE IS JUST THE TIP OF THE ICEBERG, THE LIST COULD BE ENDLESS.
BUT, if we don’t see even a glimpse of that great India in the India that we see today, it clearly means that we are not working up to our potential; and that if we do, we could once again be an evershining and inspiring country setting a bright path for rest of the world to follow.
I hope you enjoyed it and work towards the welfare of INDIA ..

Say proudly,  I am an Indian